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Wednesday, August 01, 2007

Some Truth?

I have nothing to blog for the past week or so... Probably because I have been really tied down with rushing in for last month's figures. That's why no updates here...till now, beginning of yet another month! But, still no 灵感 .

Below is a blog entry from my friend, decided to put it here for sharing... Quite a long one and the article is in CHINESE!!!

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Tis evening read the newspaper while I was standing in the train on my way hm.. read a survey that stated.. Singaporean love/voted the word "LOVE 爱" & like to talk abt "love" the most. Equal rate with England. LOVE is the mostly voted .. out of the these words (Peace, Family, Mum, Dream, Cool) .. but it's not tis article tat makes me wanna blog, but infact is wats coming up & wat u gonna read through..tat makes me wanna blog t9..............
It's super meaningful... I really duno y... my eyes just filled wif tears when I jus read it out silently through my voice & it jus moved my heart..... It's really makes you pause to think abt the person I've met @ times those struggles in me, the feeling of a failed relationship..who i will meet and when is it happen, wat will be the ending, will i be happy, how long to wait for it, is it worth... wat is LOVE... if can, read slowly "through ur voice to ur heart..."

人生就是为了找寻爱的过程,每个人的人生都要找到四个人。
第一个是自己, 第二个是你最爱的人, 第三个是最爱你的人, 第四个是共度一生的人。
首先会遇到你最爱的人, 然後体会到爱的感觉; 因为了解被爱的感觉, 所以才能发现最爱你的人; 当你经历过爱人与被爱, 学会了爱, 才会知道什么是你需要的, 也才会找到最适合你, 能够相处一辈子的人。 但很悲哀的, 在现实生活中, 这三个人通常不是同一个人; 你最爱的, 往往没有选择你; 最爱你的, 往往不是你最爱的; 而最长久的, 偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的, 只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。 你, 会是别人生命中的第几个人呢? 没有人是故意要变心的, 他爱你的时候是真的爱你, 可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了, 他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你; 同样的, 他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你。 当一个人不爱你要离开你, 你要问自己还爱不爱他, 如果你也不爱他了, 千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开; 如果你还爱他, 你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐, 希望他跟真正爱的人在一起, 绝不会阻止, 你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福, 就表示你已经不爱他了, 而如果你不爱他, 你又有什么资格指责他变心呢? 爱不是占有, 你喜欢月亮, 不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里, 但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。 换句话说, 你爱一个人, 也可以用另一种方式拥有, 爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆, 如果你真爱一个人, 就要爱他原来的样子─爱他的好, 也爱他的坏: 爱他的优点, 也爱他的缺点, 绝不能因为爱他, 就希望他变成自己所希望的样子, 万一变不成就不爱他了。 真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的, 你只知道无论何时何地, 心情好坏, 你都希望这个人陪著你; 真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守, 也就是没有丝毫要求。 毕竟, 感情必须付出, 而不是只想获得; 分开是一种必然的考验, 如果你们感情不够稳固, 只好认输, 真爱是不会变成怨恨的。 你呢? 找到了第几个? 茫茫人海中, 你遇见了谁? 谁又遇见了你?
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Are there some truth in it? What do you think?

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